Ben Wilkie
How to avoid breaching boundaries claims
Breaching boundaries is one of the most common complaints about
therapists and counsellors, according to Towergate Professional
Risks, the specialist liability insurance provider.
The company says the most common forms of allegations seen in
complaints and claims against practitioners are:
- Specific boundary violations such as sexual contact,
invitations or suggestions of friendship, inappropriate use of
touch
- Bullying or disrespect
- Emotional or financial exploitation
- Inappropriate disclosures by the practitioner / consultant or
others
- Inappropriate encounters with others such as family members,
other clients or workmen
- Giving gifts
- Incompetence
As a result of its experience, Towergate Professional Risks has
come up with some tips to help practitioners avoid getting
themselves into a position where such complaints could be made:
- Be interested in and always take to supervision or other
professional support any urge you have to bend the rules.
Practitioners or consultants who have been complained against often
say in hindsight that they responded too quickly rather than
exploring these urges with the client to understand them in the
context of the client’s presentation and history, rather than step
into that history and suffer the consequences.
- Think very carefully and take consultation before using touch
in any way with clients. However much you may feel driven by a
desire to be warm and kind, touch of any kind can easily be
misinterpreted. There are ways to touch and to ‘hold’ a distressed
client that don’t involve physical contact.
- Also remember that urges to be kind or to give clients what
their mother or father failed to give them may come from your need
to be special and not your client’s therapeutic need.
- When it comes to giving - or accepting - gifts always consider
the therapeutic or professional value of doing so as opposed to
coming from the heart or not wanting to offend.
- Likewise when you are considering making a self-disclosures ask
yourself - and your supervisor - if this will be of therapeutic
value.
- If you find that you have bent or over-stepped a boundary get
supervision to help you to discuss it with the client as a way of
moving the therapy forward. Therapeutic or business relationships
like any other relationship can be put back on track.
- Avoid being drawn into ‘dual relationships’. It is tempting
when the client is in training to cross professional boundaries in
ways such as also supervising their work or inviting them to a
training workshop or seminar. Our experience shows that it is
increasingly unwise to take into therapy someone who is in training
in an organisation where you have connections - past or present. It
is easy to inadvertently cross boundaries of confidentiality or for
a fragile client to imagine that you have done so.
- Finally, if you believe that you may have over-stepped a
professional boundary - tell your insurer. Even though no complaint
has been made by the client, it is always better to notify your
insurance provider. Don’t worry - as long as an actual complaint
isn’t made, it won’t affect your insurance cover date.